I moved my family to an almost rural community in Central
Virginia just over four years ago. After a while I felt called to bring my
family to a local church community and we started going to a rural
Baptist church.
The old folks appeared to
have a handle on the community and control of the culture even though
they had a very liberal pastor in place. There was little convergence
at this point however because he did not control the people who
controlled the culture.
After about 5
months of attendance, the liberal pastor left and things got even
better. Our community seemed to flourish. A few months later, however
the church got an interim pastor who had spent his career with the
International Mission Board organization.
Soon
after becoming the interim pastor, the "pastor search committee" -
which I will point out did not consist only of the elders of the church
but was at least half women - decided to make a motion to have the
interim pastor join full-time. We weren't members yet so we couldn't
vote and my few reservations may not have completely convinced me it was
the wrong move anyway. The church voted and he became the full-time
pastor.
Immediately, he cut the number of
hymns down from 5 to 3, changed our traditional Doxology to a simple and
ill-fit melody, changed service time from 10:15 to 11:00, and soon
fired the old lady who played piano for years and replaced her with a
young buck. Soon after, he did a library liquidation and sold or gave away all the books in the church's library.
The preaching now started
including quips about the "corporate sin" of racism that is common for
us Virginia Confederates. Messages about a generic love that will
"break down walls between communities" abounded. Missionaries were
brought in to teach about the importance of caring for refugees.
The
final straw for me was when something called "The Welcoming Prayer" by
Thomas Keating was not only preached but became the main prayer of the
pastor. As the pastor prayed this for the congregation my wife and I
distinctly felt as if dark forces had been welcomed into our church.
The Welcoming Prayer (by Father Thomas Keating)
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
I welcome everything that comes to me today
because I know it's for my healing.
I welcome all thoughts, feelings, emotions, persons,
situations, and conditions.
I let go of my desire for power and control.
I let go of my desire for affection, esteem,
approval and pleasure.
I let go of my desire for survival and security.
I let go of my desire to change any situation,
condition, person or myself.
I open to the love and presence of God and
God's action within. Amen.
We
haven't been back since that day. We did get a few gems from our time
there, but the best thing was the first hand experience of a church's
decline. It will be hard to not see these signs in the future.
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